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Afraid of Being Dumped...Again
"I am dating a wonderful woman, but I am afraid she will dump me, which...
Don't let your fears scare her off »
He's Lost That Loving Feeling
When we were dating, my husband, who has ADHD, made me feel like I was...
Love lost? »
ADHD Makes It Difficult to Concentrate on Conversations
Are there any ADD coping strategies that could help me focus when talking to people?...
Does My ADHD Scare Off Potential Girlfriends?
I’m worried that girls stop dating me because of my ADD. I talk a lot...
Dealing With Interruptions: ADHD at Work
"How do I maintain concentration when I'm interrupted at work?"...
"How can you prove to others that your ADHD behaviors and symptoms are not your...
So Anxious I'm Groping for Words
I have trouble finding words when I try to speak. I'm so anxious about being...
Stressed out and stumbling »
Fired! What Are My Options?
I was fired from my job because my boss said I wasn’t a team player...
Your accommodations in context »
Your Better Half: Bolstering Your ADHD Marriage to a Non-ADD Spouse
"Like many ADDers, I lose things, procrastinate like crazy, forget to pay bills, and so...
ADD Family Members
"My ADD mom and sister drive me crazy with their fast-paced lives, and they get...
Job Interview Skills
"My anxiety and lack of social skills are big problems for me in job interviews...
4 Secrets to Following Your Passion: Advice for ADHD Teens
My ADHD son likes so many different things. How can I help him pick a...
Has My Distracted ADD/ADHD Partner Fallen Out of Love?
"My ADD/ADHD partner says she loves me, but she doesn’t seem interested in me. How...
Does my ADHD partner still love me?»
Communicating With Forgetful ADD/ADHD Adult Partners
"Our phone service was shut off because my partner forgot to take his ADD/ADHD medication...
Practicing forgiveness, resolving frustration»
How to Finish Projects: No More Impatience, Perfectionism, Procrastination, Stressing, or Taking on More Than You Can Handle
"One of my biggest hurdles is getting things done completely. I rarely see a task...
Strategies to counter ADHD impatience»
ADHD Sex Drive: Do Medications Help or Hurt?
"Do the drugs used to treat attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) cause side effects that...
ADHD drugs affect adults' libido?»
Could Disclosing ADHD to My Employer Protect Me from Being Fired?
“I was fired from my last two jobs. Could I have avoided this if I...
Does telling your employer about your ADHD protect you?»
Is My ADHD a Legal Defense Against Back Taxes?
“I own a business, but I neglected to file my income tax for several years...
How Can ADHD Parents Cope With a Child's ADHD Diagnosis?
“My husband and I have ADHD, and our daughter was recently diagnosed with it. Helping...
You both have ADHD, now your kids do, too»
How Can Non-ADHD Spouses Cope With a Partner's ADHD Symptoms?
"I've been married to an ADHD man for 21 years. He won't put things away...
My ADHD Husband Acts Like a Child
"I’m married to a brilliant man with ADHD, who works at NASA. But he leaves...
Telling My Boyfriend About ADD
How -- and when -- should I tell my significant other that I have attention...
Hyperfocus on Making Love?
How do I keep my attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) mind on romance in the...
When Your Partner Refuses ADHD Treatment
My boyfriend refuses to get help for his attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD). He says...
Be a Better Bud
I have deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD). Although treatment is helping me, I need to improve...
Is ADHD Making My Wife Cheat on Me?
My wife has cheated on me multiple times. I’m convinced her infidelity is related to...
I Can't Understand My ADHD Husband!
My ADD spouse jumps from topic to topic when he talks, and I can’t follow...
Feeling Overwhelmed? Take Control!
"I was recently diagnosed with ADD and am overwhelmed with learning organizing skills, testing medications...
ADD on the Job
"I am a 43-year-old female recently diagnosed with ADD. How can I find the funding...
When Both Husband and Wife Have ADHD
"Is it impossible for both partners in a marriage to have attention deficit disorder and...
Defusing ADD Blow-Ups
"My boyfriend has ADD and blows up each time I offer the slightest criticism."...
Avoiding Eye Contact
"I am 54, recently diagnosed with ADD, and can't look people in the eye when...
How Do I Find an ADD Coach?
"I am an extremely visual thinker, and need an ADD coach that can understand this...
Battling Anxiety at Work
"Whenever I'm expected to speak up in a meeting at work, I get hoarse and...
Maintaining Motivation with Adult ADD
"I struggle constantly to stay motivated at work and at school. What can I do?"...
My ADHD Husband Won't Discuss Our Relationship Problems
"My ADHD husband gets angry when I try to discuss our relationship problems. He won't...
Why Wouldn't My Deployed ADHD Husband Spend More Time with Our Family?
"My ADHD husband was deployed to Iraq, but he spent his last weeks at home...
Collaborating with My ADHD Spouse
"How can I get my wife to be more accepting of my help?"...
Does Health Insurance Cover ADHD Coaching?
"Does health insurance cover ADHD coaching?"...
Re-entering the Work Force: ADHD Career Advice
"It's been years since I've had a stable job. How can I get back into...
Does ADHD Get Worse With Old Age?
I'm curious about the effect of old age on ADHD. Do symptoms tend to level...
Helping My ADHD Wife
"My wife has ADD and she's afraid to take on any responsibility. How can I...
Why Won't My ADHD Wife Change Her Ways?
"My wife has adult ADHD and only changes her distracted, disorganized ways when I threaten...
ADD Adult Having Trouble Balancing Life
"Thanks to ADHD, I have trouble balancing two or more major parts of my life...
Life Balance for ADD Adults
Conversational Difficulties for ADHD Adults
"I'm 42 and live alone. I'm single, and because I struggle with social interaction, I'm...
Leave Me Alone!
"I have trouble being around large crowds. I would rather be alone, and there are...
Constantly Angry at My ADHD Spouse
I feel anger at my ADHD spouse most of the time. How do I get...
ADHD, Depression and Overload
"I am a single mother to a five-year-old son. I'd like to go to grad...
My Fiance, Mr. Stay up Late/Get up Late
My lazy fiance has difficulty getting up early and going to bed at a reasonable...
Struggles With Relationships
"I am almost 42 years old and I struggle with relationships due to my ADHD...
Finding an ADHD Coach
"My 22-year-old son has been unable to complete college courses or vocational training. How do...
Do You Have a Stale Sex Life?
When we were dating, our sex life was great, but now the spark is gone...
When Both Partners Are Diagnosed: Understanding the Other's ADHD
My husband and I both have ADHD, but we manifest it differently. I’m disorganized in...
Through the years, my ADHD husband and I have learned to communicate positively. But when...
To Tell or Not to Tell ... Someone They Have ADHD
I suspect that my sweet, wonderful daughter-in-law may have adult ADD. Should I speak with...
Putting An End to Angry Outbursts
"During arguments, I often get mad and say things I don’t mean. How can I...
Insurance Coverage for Adderall
Now that the mental-health parity law has passed, will my insurance company cover the cost...
ADHD Accommodations at Work?
Can I get work accommodations that would allow me to come in a little later?...
When ADHD Energy Overloads the Family
When my husband comes back from business trips, his high energy level is tough to...
Convincing My Husband That ADHD Exists
My husband doesn't believe in ADHD and worries that my medication might hurt my health...
Help for Awkward ADHD Social Skills
How can I help my girlfriend improve her conversation skills so she's not so abrupt...
Advice for a Successful Job Interview
I don't do well at job interviews, how can I improve my chances for success?...
All Things Frugal in Treating Adult ADHD
"I don’t have health insurance, and stimulant medications are very expensive. All the adult ADD...
3 Ways to Talk It Out with Your Spouse
My non-ADD partner does not understand the condition, and doesn’t seem willing to learn (I’ve...
Dividing the Duties in an ADD Marriage
My husband is a wonderful dad and spouse, but I get extremely frustrated when he...
Distracted Hubby Leavin' You Lonely?
I’m lonely! My husband is too distracted to pay attention to me. What should I...
End the 'Coaching,' Mend the Marriage
We have fallen into a bad pattern: I find myself coaching my husband to do...
An ADD Career: Finding What Fits
"I’m considering switching careers and finding a job at a restaurant. Although I’ve been told...
Are You Afraid of Expressing Yourself?
"Although I can be very passionate about things, I find it difficult to express myself...
Improving Eye Contact
"My eyes tend to wander during conversations. How can I get better at maintaining eye...
Helping a Partner Who Interrupts
"My fiancé talks too much and interrupts when we go out with friends. What can...
Spotty Work History
"I’ve held lots of different jobs over the years. How can I assure prospective employers...
"How can I keep focused during boring lectures and conferences?"...
Making Amends with Other Parents
"My seven-year-old hits other kids when he's frustrated."...
Compulsive Eating and Shopping
"Whenever I feel down, I eat and shop uncontrollably. I know I need to stop,...
Does ADHD Get Worse With Age?
"Do the symptoms of ADHD get worse with middle age when the memory starts to...
Dealing With Emotional Detachment
"Is it true that people with ADD feel emotions less intensely than non-ADDers?" ...
How to Address ADD in the Workplace
"One of my employees is bright but performs far below his potential. Would it be...
Picking Fights with Friends
"How can I help my husband to stop picking fights with family and friends?"...
"I think I have ADD, but my doctor is dismissive. How can I find someone...
Diagnosed ADD at Age 70
"I'm 70 years old and was recently diagnosed with ADD. I'm also a breast cancer...
Qualifying for a Disability at Work
"I was just given a warning at work. The memo cited many problems that are...
Getting Help Around the House
"How can I get my ADHD husband to do his fair share of the housework?" ...
Learning To Let Go
"I don't have ADD, but my husband does. Can you suggest some ways to squelch...
Strategies for Social Situations
"I've struggled in social settings my whole life. What can I do to stop from...
"I've been married 11 years and have had six affairs. Is there any hope for...
The Job Interview: What Are Employers Looking For?
"The interview process makes my blood boil and my nerves shoot through the roof. Do...
Courses To Improve Problem-Solving Skills
"I have poor problem-solving skills and my inability to confront issues has caused problems and...
Difficulties Getting Along With People
"I'm having difficulties getting along with people at work and at home. To complicate matters,...
ADHD and Monogamy: How Many Relationships Do ADD Adults and Teens Need?
"Can a woman with ADHD be satisfied with only one relationship, or does she require...
I've Had 26 Jobs In The Last Six Years!
"I'm a 33 year-old man who has difficulty with reading and spelling. I've held dozens...
Oppositional Behavior in Young Adults
"What issues will the 'oppositional defiance' component produce in our son as he enters his...
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